One of my favorite times of the year is the Christmas Season. I love the decorations, the lights, the Christmas play at my church, but the thing I like the most is spending time with my extended family. Christmas Dinner is one of the few times we are all together during the busy year, and everyone who is able to, attends. |
My family’s Christmas Dinners are held at my Uncle Monte and Aunt Lydia’s house. The house is usually pretty full with over 40 family members from 1-81 years of age. Naturally, there has to be a large amount of food, which takes a lot of time to prepare. We usually start making the food on Christmas Eve. Each family brings a few dishes to share with everyone at the dinner.
This year my family brought mash potatoes, Five Cup Salad, corn and sugar cookies. Since no one in my family is very good at cooking, we would normally make our mash potatoes from a box, but because this was for our big extended family dinner we made them with “real” potatoes. Five Cup Salad is a great thing to make if you are not a very experienced cook because it is quick and easy all you do is mix 1 cup of pecans, oranges, pineapples, coconut, marshmallows and sour cream, which makes six cups, hmm interesting. Of course the corn is from the frozen section, because everyone knows frozen corn is the best! The only thing we really spend that much time on is the sugar cookies, since desert is always one of the most important things. My mom, my sisters, Olivia and Alaina, and I all work in the kitchen together. This is one of the many fun things about Christmas time, baking, laughing and talking with everyone as we roll out and cut the cookies into holiday shapes.
The next day after we have gathered around our Christmas tree and opened all the presents, my mom, dad, Olivia, her husband Josh, Alaina, my brother Alex, and I walk across the street to my aunt and uncle’s house, it’s a quick trip because we live in the same cul-de-sac. There we are greeted by the smiling faces of my uncles, aunts, cousins and grandparents. My aunts and mom start setting out the food in the kitchen while everyone else continues to update each other on their lives. Honey baked ham and roast, are the main dishes, but there is an assortment of side dishes as well as my Aunt Lydia’s homemade rolls. The smell of the rolls fill the house with a delicious aroma, that lets us all know it is time to eat.
When everyone gets to the kitchen my Grandpa says a prayer, thanking God for the family He has blessed us with and the food we are about to enjoy. After this, everyone forms a line, sometimes the line is so long it reaches into the other room. The length of the line varies, because frequently different family members will invite other people to join us for dinner, one time my cousin-in-law brought his step brother from Australia, so you never know who will be there. It usually takes a while to get our food served, because everyone is choosing carefully what to eat. There are so many choices, mash potatoes, sweet potatoes, pea salad, rice dressing, ham, rolls, roast and corn are just a few of the options. But I don’t mind waiting in line because the people waiting next to me are great company.
After everyone gets their food, my cousins, sisters, brother and I head down to the basement, this is practically the only place left to sit in the house, and there are not even enough chairs for everyone, so we all just sit in a big circle on the floor. I always enjoy the conversations I have with my cousins, sometimes the conversations are about my cousins band The Green Type Writers, or challenging each other to a weight lifting competition, a lot of times everyone is just telling jokes. But the conversations almost always end with everyone laughing hysterically.
This Christmas when we finished our dinner we had a bench press competition. My older cousin Jacob was the judge because everyone knows he would win if he was competing. This year the competition was close between my twelve year old cousin Jimmie and me, but I finally beat him. When the competition is over, my cousins and I head up stairs for desert. Sounds like a great idea, doesn't it? Workout then eat desert. When we get up stairs we head over to the desert table where there are sugar cookies, pumpkin pie, brownies, ginger bread men, cheesecake and many other delicious treats. My favorite thing there is probably the sugar cookies. Everyone in my family seems to be especially good at making deserts. While we are indulging in desert, my grandpa, uncle or one of my cousins usually reads passages from the Bible, that are relevant to our Christmas celebration. We like to spend the rest of the evening snacking on the leftovers, playing games, and just hanging out.

Even though most of my family lives close I don’t get to see a lot of them very often during the year because everyone is so busy. I look forward to Christmas Dinner with my family every year, I love being able to spend time and enjoy a special meal with the people I care about most. In many ways the food and fellowship are tied together. There are not many times my family all comes together without food being one of the main attractions.

Over the years, I have acquired bizarre and fastidious cravings for these foods from my heritage. I connect certain flavors and smells with many compassionate and comforting memories of family. The comfort I get is an extremely satisfying and uplifting feeling. Linking the present taste to a feeling I previously had before. Whenever I eat my grandmother’s potatoes, eggs, bacon and green chili breakfast it takes me back to when I was little and slept over her house. There was never a morning she didn’t cook me breakfast while I was still watching television in her waterbed. No one has ever made a more delicious breakfast nor have I met anyone who can cook like my grandmother.







